Here is a question for all my black women out there. Does it offend you or would it offend you to see a white woman blatantly proclaim that a Black man will leave you for her simply because she is white? How do u feel about inter-racial dating? What is accepted or what bothers you about it..? How do you feel about the unfair stereo-types projected by some Black men as to why they date outside of their race?
Please forward all answers to my comment box. I'm working on an article regarding these subjects.
Black men... What is it that attracts you to White women or non black women.. excluding Latina's? Is there a difference in the relationships/sex/conversations with these women?? Does it matter what race a person is? Is it important to you to maintain Black Love?
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This must be an inmportant read. Let us know when you do the article. I am keen to follow the subject. Will you?
Interracial dating doesn't bother me, as long as the man/woman isn't putting down their own race as the reason they don't date their own race. I do think however that a man and a woman have the right to date who they want to date irregardless of race. Now would I be offended if a white woman make a statement that my "black" man will leave me for her--yes, not because of the statement but the audacity to say it to my face. Then I'd back away and let her pick her teeth up off the floor.
Back to *Princess* mode.
If black women were as worried about pleasing their man as they are about getting paid, putting men down, getting paid, and portrayingh themselves so high and mighty more black men would stay home
the truth of the matter is other women are more confident in themselves to please their mate regardless of what anyone thinks'
black women are too involved in what mary sue and james have to say about their relationships
love and relationships arent always about getting what you want the way you want it.
why be with a person if you wont please them?..lets stop looking outside when we are the problem
would you liek ti if men started blaming black women as to the reason why they dont take care of their kids? cuz i could sure give you alot of examples of it
you want to see more black men with black women , then tell ya sistas start respecting and showing more love to brothers who arent rich and dont look like rick fox!!!
holla at ya man
Aaron did you write that? LMAO LMAO Sounds like something u would say....
Princess I agree whole-heartedly with you on everything you said.
I need more comments though. I'm soo curious about what everyone has to say.
LMAO at the princess! "Back to princess mode" Ha ha ha.
Well, I could write a book on this topic b/c I have done a lot of interracial dating. For me, I don't look at race when choosing who I date. I'm looking for someone I enjoy spending time with and who makes me happy. I enjoy outdoor activites - and let's face it - you don't see many brothers on the hiking trails. So I tend to date mostly white guys. I was in my last relationship for five years - he was white. We received more racist comments from black men than anyone else, and the comments were always directed at him. What does that say? I'm still trying to figure that one out. A black security guard at his job said to him, "She is going to leave you or cheat on you. You can't keep a black woman." He lost his job behind that comment. Then there was the common, "Black women belong with black men." I could go on for days on the comments we received. I was never disheartened by any of them and I was so proud of him for never losing his temper and always handling the situation in a dignified way - It made me love him even more. That being said, I don't think I would be as composed. If a woman came up to me and said something like what you have as your example - bitch wouldn't be getting ANY man after what I do to her face.
Moving on... If you don't get the feedback that you are looking for, let me know. I could write a post on my blog and see if I get more feedback.
I hope you are happy where you are.
well... since i'm not black, i don't really know what to answer. but i've been doing interracial dating myself only because i don't see a person from the skin color, and that was how my parents raised me.
when you're done with the writing, it'd be great to share it with us :) i'd LOVE to read it.
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