Ok. So I'm real new to this single stuff. Honestly, I don't
even feel like I'm single. I still see Aaron from time to time.
We are working on this friend thing. I live alone. And yes I'm lonely
as hell, but I deal with it. I have my pc and my TCM (turner classic
movie channel) and I'm good. It helps that I am right near the
beach because I love to go walking. (Although my schedule has caused
a bit of conflict in that department) Anyhow, there is this GUY.
A guy I have known for about 4 years. I won't bust him out because I
actually LIKE him, for whatever that's worth! LOL
Lately we've been speaking via texts,e-mails and phone. We talk
about everything. He is a very nice man and has a good head on
his shoulders. BUT he asked me to borrow $100 yesterday.
I mean, I haven't even SEEN him in over a year. So what would
make him think I would give him a $100 bucks. I would give
Teej $100 bucks before him and he is 2000 miles away/LMAO.
My point in saying this is why would he even consider asking me.
WE TALK about EVERYTHING. He knows I just moved. He knows I'm a single
mother. He knows I just bought a new vehicle. So Why in his right
mind would he think I have an extra $100 bucks? It truly makes
me question his integrity. I mean come on, we haven't seen each
other in a year. And it's not like I have spent this mass amount
of time with him when I was in Vegas (oops just gave it away lol)
but even so, I thought it was pretty inconsiderate and very poor
judgement. I look at him totally different and find myself uninterested
in getting to know him now.
I could be totally WRONG about this, but this is just my opinion:
Men should not ask women to borrow money. At least a woman, whom u
barely know or a woman that is NOT directly related to you. It's
not very classy at all.
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Your right...its not classy and its downright low!! Dont change your mind and lend him that money, not matter how persuasive he may be. Guys like this cannot be trusted...
well...i have another take on this. perhaps he has really been down on his luck lately, just needs a little helping hand and it will only be a one-time thing. it takes a lot of sucking up your pride to ask anyone for money nevermind a friend whom who haven't had contact with for a year. i personally think you should give him the benefit of the doubt - you never know when you might need a favour from him yano?
Yeah....I'd have to be realllly hard up to ask to borrow money in a situation like this. Did you ask him what was so urge that he needed to borrow the $$$?
But more importantly....can I hold that $100 that you said you'd lend me? LMAO!!!
Hmmm, I would say that a man should not ask a single mother for money. I mean that's taking away from you and your child. If he is truly interested in you then he will respect your situation and still be a part of your life and perhaps that will prove to you that he can be trusted. But if he thinks little of you for not letting him borrow the money then you know what type of character your dealing with. You never know what's on other peoples agendas.....(smile)
DANG!!! WHAT NERVE. WELL I AGREE A MAN SHOULD NOT ASK A WOMAN TO BORROW MONEY ESPLYY THAT KIND OF MONEY. TO ME IT SHOWS HE'S NOT A MAN...HARD UP OR NOT. MEN ARE BORN HUSSLERS! THEY GET THAT MONEY HONEY! NEW RIDE HUH? ME TOO!!!! LET GO FOR A TWO CITY SPIN MA!
LMAO @ Teej... anytime babydoll!
;)
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